It’s very true that we don’t value the things which we get in free. We get Air in free, that’s why never valued it and today we all are talking about global warming and landing our generation in a danger atmosphere.
We don’t care for someone’s love as we are getting it without paying and slowly we cultivate the habit of becoming TAKER. As I said in my earlier blog “Jamsaheb” I always remained taker in front of my mother. I took her love granted, I thought I would get it always but sometimes we enjoy with myth and today I can not take even a single drop of love from Ocean of her love. I scream for it but there is no meaning of it. I realized after losing her that whatever I want to do I need to do it at the same time and should not wait for right time to come. In professional life there is a thing called Right Time but in personal life scenario is totally different.
Life is a flow, everything is changing and I can not take things granted and also I can not hold the situations in my hand because I understand the words of Ayn Rand “Hands do perspire when hold for too long” from Fountainhead. But yes I can become GIVER and I’m happy when I bring smile on someone’s face. It makes me feel good when someone says “By talking to you I got new direction of life and I’m confident”. I don’t want to be the richest person but I want to feel wealthiest by making my surrounding happy. Giving has it’s own charm. We expect to be loved but we are so selfish that we can not speak even a single word of love to make other’s happy. We want to dream for better Materially Happy future but we don’t bother to bring new rays of Hope in our people’s eyes.
I observed that this creates elusions in other’s minds, they start taking things granted and it hurts me a lot when people take my love granted. My emotions are not the things which I sell for free. It is associated with my conscious and it drives my life. It’s strength of my nerves and reason of becoming positive. These sorts of experiences are changing my attitude and I want to change myself because now I want to remove the tag of Emotional Person from my crown. I’m happy that I’m becoming particle. I started giving priorities in relations, caring only those who care for me. It was just a speed breaker on my NH-7. Really I am very much Happy with this change in life because now no one has right to take my feelings granted and now my emotions wont remain free forever!
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